There’s a tendency I’ve noticed in myself (and many others) that I’ve started to call “In a Hurry to Be Done.” When I’m starting to learn something, or building a new habit, or starting a work project … there’s a big part of me that wants to be at the end, when I’m already getting the benefits of the habit, learning, or project.
For example, if I start lifting weights, I want to already be in the future, when I’m strong and I have nice muscles (which will take more than a year, at least). If I’m learning chess, I want to already be a strong player (which might take years). If I’m building a YouTube channel, I want to already have 10k subscribers, which will definitely take awhile.
When I start a process, I want to already be at the place where I’m getting the benefits of the process.
That’s the idea behind the “In a Hurry to Be Done” tendency.
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